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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #15 on: July 12, 2014, 01:37:02 pm »

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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #16 on: July 13, 2014, 02:10:15 am »

Just...ugh, okay look.

First, post less. You end up posting full conversations with Catavanda in threads and no one else is speaking. This is usually not a recommended form of action ESPECIALLY when you have an awareness that the rest of the forum is irritated with the things you're saying.

Second, put more effort into the things you post. No need to always try and be funny with everything you do, and serious posts will get you further if you happen to have an undeveloped or different sense of humor.

Third, careful with the ponies. I do that shit too and have to check myself but you need to remember this isn't a pony forum and not everyone likes that shit. There is an MLP thread. You should try to keep it there.

There is no need to resign to being a "bad member" provided you are open to critique. Change is never easy, and sometimes it's too against your own style. And if it is then that's fine, but being less flamboyant in your different actions is usually more conducive to being accepted. But if you want to and can change I honestly don't think this community is as intimidating or unaccepting as it seems.

We just have a tight-knit group that has gone through SEVERAL terrible members making things pretty much terrible for a while. Everyone's nerves run a little high. And the normal "bad" behavior can be really grating.

Have you noticed that recently you are only communicating with other "bad" members for the majority of your actions? This is because the "good" members won't fill up tons of threads bickering between themselves. They have more temperance; they don't post as often because they care about what they post and they tend to stay on topic instead of chatting randomly. They don't make full threads for malicious reasons and care about what they say.

You deserve to care about what you have to say. Show us that care and we can reciprocate.

Of course, we have a "way' of doing things in this forum. We cannot really objectively claim our way is the "right" way and if you really don't want to change then none of us can stop you. You just may want to reevaluate if this "clique" is right for you or if you really want connections with people in this place.
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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #17 on: July 13, 2014, 02:21:03 am »

Also, there's nothing to be gained in beating yourself up over what's already happened. If you dislike the patterns you've fallen into then the best course of action is change. Again, this is easier said than done. I just can't stand it when people legitimately think of themselves as "bad." Perhaps you've been posting poorly but you're not a bad person by any means, okay? Everyone has shitposted before, and I'm sure everyone has done WORSE things in their own lives as well.

Bad things happen frequently. Bad people are rare.
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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #18 on: July 13, 2014, 03:56:00 am »

First, post less. You end up posting full conversations with Catavanda in threads and no one else is speaking. This is usually not a recommended form of action ESPECIALLY when you have an awareness that the rest of the forum is irritated with the things you're saying.

As well stated as that post was, I need to add specifically to this. Use PMs (private messages) for conversations between two people. Generally the only time you will not do this (thereby invoking rule 3) is if the conversation you are having seems like it would be good if other people joined in. At that point it is okay to create a thread based on your previous conversation, otherwise it stays in private messages.
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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #19 on: July 13, 2014, 03:18:04 pm »

Silver always manages to say exactly what I'm thinking.
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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #20 on: July 13, 2014, 05:12:37 pm »

And AIRBAG refuses to read and understand what Silver said.

What a shame.
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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #21 on: July 13, 2014, 05:18:55 pm »

And AIRBAG refuses to read and understand what Silver said.

What a shame.
I did read it all

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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #22 on: July 13, 2014, 05:20:39 pm »

And AIRBAG refuses to read and understand what Silver said.

What a shame.
I did read it all

You don't act like you did at all.
You don't even react; you just ignored his post completely.
It's almost like you're doing the opposite of what he said.
WHAT A SHAME.

But know what? Let it be.
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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #23 on: July 13, 2014, 05:23:17 pm »

And AIRBAG refuses to read and understand what Silver said.

What a shame.
I did read it all

You don't act like you did at all.
You don't even react; you just ignored his post completely.
It's almost like you're doing the opposite of what he said.
WHAT A SHAME.

But know what? Whatever.
I Read it all and am taking it into consideration effect

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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #24 on: July 13, 2014, 05:23:52 pm »

And AIRBAG refuses to read and understand what Silver said.

What a shame.
I did read it all

You don't act like you did at all.
You don't even react; you just ignored his post completely.
It's almost like you're doing the opposite of what he said.
WHAT A SHAME.

But know what? Whatever.
I Read it all and am taking it into consideration effect

OBVIOUSLY NOT SINCE YOU'RE STILL RESPONDING TO CANTAVANDA WHEN HE'S SHITTING UP THE FORUMS
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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #25 on: July 13, 2014, 05:24:55 pm »

And AIRBAG refuses to read and understand what Silver said.

What a shame.
I did read it all

You don't act like you did at all.
You don't even react; you just ignored his post completely.
It's almost like you're doing the opposite of what he said.
WHAT A SHAME.

But know what? Whatever.
I Read it all and am taking it into consideration effect

OBVIOUSLY NOT SINCE YOU'RE STILL RESPONDING TO CANTAVANDA WHEN HE'S SHITTING UP THE FORUMS
Maybe I should take a hiatus from here
Get back to streaming and playing guy games

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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #26 on: July 13, 2014, 05:32:03 pm »

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Alright, I'm good now
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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #27 on: July 13, 2014, 07:51:01 pm »

Ultimately Rebag you can do what you'd like. I've enjoyed you as a person and would enjoy seeing adaptation over a hiatus but the choice is up to you. And if the change is too much to ask, which it CAN be (Again, it can be and I'd rather an individual who fits in rather than a drone), then perhaps a hiatus is best.

Wlovever you opt for I wish you love and luck :3

Also, test: love

Edit: MOTHERFUCK love IS FILTERED TO LOVE NOW

Edit 2: Fucking walked into that one
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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #28 on: July 13, 2014, 08:03:33 pm »

I hatè that a lot.
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Re: Why do i have the feeling
« Reply #29 on: July 15, 2014, 06:35:10 am »

Just convey yourself the way you want to be seen. You can do or say anything that you want, you can act more mature, which may help in this situationl. Ive looked back at my old posts and deleted a lot of them when i was younger and troll-like. It's just a part of life. It's like the other day i looked at my myspace on the new version, i was such a dumb piece of shit. If you feel bad about being here then don't keep coming back to people who treat you like shit. Stick up for youself my man boy
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